The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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Not hard ones, though, so don’t be worried. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: We took ours a while back and there are a LOT of questions! It was just a conversation starter for me and FI! Some we just read the question wrong. By continuing to use this website, you agree to their use. It sounds as though you are sacrificing your fundamental religious beliefs for your fiance, and that you are not ok with it and neither would I — proud Athiest married to another Athiest.

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It’s a really good tool. The whole thing taking the test, having it scored, and talking to the priest probably took about an hour. Told us to go over it together ourselves. I just have the priest and chruch set.

However, read them carefully, because you may think they are asking one thing, but they are really asking questionss opposite. We had a great time. I often use images ffoccus through Google Image Searches to display the creativity, depth and inspiration to be found in and out!

We FAILED Foccus.

We also questionx that, as I just said, the majority of the assessment covers important topics that apply to nearly everyone; it would probably be a good guide for topics and discussions, regardless of religion. Take what you can from it, but at the end of the day what matters is your relationship, not some numbers on a piece of paper.


What did you learn in your marriage prep? Fill in your details below or click an icon to log question Bibliophile is right – read carefully.

I can withdraw my consent at any time by unsubscribing. I questoons that maybe it is the priest that is not a good fit. Our kids will have their own choices.

We are active members in our church and it was really important to us—and to our families—that our faith was a part of our wedding ceremony.

We FAILED Foccus.

Would you feel uncomfortable naked in front of your future husband? I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry. The results form doesnt include the orginial question which makes it hard to figure out what some of the discussions should be. I really feel like the victim in all this, to be completely honest. August 19, at 7: They asked each of us directly if we planned to bring our kids up Catholic. I agree to receive emails from the site.

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I like your suggestion on the questions book. After the initial reaction, I realized that this was just a starting point for discussion and that we really should talk through the issues. I agree to receive emails from the site. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You can’t quuestions fail it so questionx if you have areas that are a flag for concern this means that these are areas you need to working on together as a couple.

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No, do NOT be nervous! I have them some where. They’ll ask you if you agree wo continue your involvment with the church we said YES – neithre of us are involved and we agree to continue that You are asked if you agree to raise your kids Catholic we did not You are asked if you understand the church’s position on living together before marriage Also asked several times if pregnancy is a part of your lives at this time. I certainly do NOT, but I lied and said yes.


We took the test and surprisingly, our deacon and sponsor couple said afterwards that they don’t even look at it at all. Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance. Not too worried about that part for myself, but I’m really curious what happens when it does!

IMO only the two of you can decide if it will work or not. Miss Lilac 8 years ago Wedding: Essentially I am just the kind of person who will not be questionss into anything, and I didn’t let getting married in a Catholic church make me compromise my beliefs, except that one little question I answered during the ceremony.

August 23, at 4: I had this religion pushed down my throat for years. We agreed on everything except our ‘beliefs’ so that was the major topic of conversation with the deacon. Which means we have thought about getting married and already discussed everything it was asking. My future spouse and I have discussed what roles we expect from each other.

JackieDe 8 years ago Wedding: June Auestions have zero knowledge of the Catholic church, but I wanted to just give a comment here as well from my experience in pre-marital counseling — my pastor came right out and said that he did NOT like marrying young people!

It should really not be called a “Test” because you cannot really fail it. I do it for my husband.